During the weekend my girl friend asked me to come to her home in Pittsburgh for the Christmas holiday.  I just looked at her and froze. As I thought to myself, I have never spent Christmas anywhere else, other than home with my family.  I needed to think about that one.  I didn’t realize by not answering yes, that I may have hurt her feelings a bit.  I was just trying to enjoy this holiday without having to go so deep about anything else.  Believe me when I say this was exciting enough to ask her to come to our Thanksgiving and I am sure it was hard for her to make that change as well.  This is what relationships are all about, give and take, and literally right out of the gate.  Boy was I being tested!  I was asked a pretty deep question out of left field and whamo it hit me by surprise. I am booked ended by the two most awesome sisters in the world. My twin on one side and my older sister on the other.  They both just looked at me and simultaneously said,  you’re going, bye bye!  What you’re kicking me out on my favorite holiday. They just looked at me and I realized,  I just about put my foot down my throat.  The little cloud above my head popped out and said don’t be a “big dummy”.  I was headed to Pittsburgh for the Christmas Holiday!  It’s amazing what love will make  you do!